Black Friday kicks off the Christmas holiday season,time to spend more time with family and it is a time we spend more time shopping as well.In light of this  I have decided to  work on a 12 days of Christmas  blog post series.

Christmas get me excited,I have such fond memories of Christmas from my childhood i literally cant keep still once December kicks in-which  might explain my inability to wait till December,1st to post this!

I will do a post on picking gifts for  loved ones,a post on being thankful,one on planning  for the year ahead,okay..let me stop there before giving too much away.

The holiday season is an opportunity to reflect on the 11 months of the year that have passed and getting down to plan  for the new year.

It is time to take stock of lessons we have learned and how we have grown and changed over the past 11 months.

It is a time to let go of past hurts and embrace forgiveness.

I am very excited to be starting the series and I hope you are too because I would love to hear from you as well about how your year has been and what you are hoping to do or see more of in the new year,on the blog as well,what kind of stories,posts you would  like more of.


Keep checking to see when we kick off and cant wait to share what I have been working on.






In Africa everyone is family,this includes your mother’s distant cousin 5 times removed. So how do we carry ourselves when we find ourselves house guests no matter what continent we find ourselves in? How do we ensure the visit is pleasurable for us as guests as well as for our hosts?

Guest quote


Show up on time. It is polite to call ahead and confirm with your hosts what time you expect to arrive. You do not want to be getting them out of bed at midnight . Start off your visit on a pleasant note by keeping time. Remember to also show up in time for meals  and especially breakfast,show up dressed for the day.


Gift giving is a part of every culture Whenever you visiting someone,whether family or not there and plan to stay for more than a night it is important to bring with you a gift.

Offer to help

No one is ever too important to help even as a guest,make your bed,offer to set the table,wash or dry dishes and generally be considerate of your host or hostess. If you intend to stay for longer than five days and can afford to, offer to shop for groceries ,cook or take out your hosts for lunch or dinner.

Be tidy

As a guest always have your host in mind all the time and do not inconvenience your hosts by leaving  your things lying around the house. Keep your room tidy all the time no matter how many staff your host has. When it is time to leave,strip the bed and leave the room as you found it.

Tipping Staff

If you were staying at a house where there were staff waiting on you or taking care of your room,talk with your host and ask what would be an appropriate amount to leave for the staff

Thank you Note

Write a thank you note  or just say than you to your hosts for making your visit a pleasant and comfortable one at the end of your visit. Saying thank you will show your hosts how grateful and appreciative  you were for their hosting you. It is an acknowledgement that you do not take  anything they did for you for granted and an acknowledgement that they matter.